While most women can ask for their girlfriends’ stamp of approval when opting for a trendy outfit for that all-important first date, you can never be too sure that you’re dressed to impress. Given that men usually tend to be enticed by visual cues, appearances and outfits really do make a difference.

Laurenbatty/reshot. Being a good listener on a first date will leave a good impression

You’ve just scored that first date with the man of your dreams but there’s trouble in paradise—what would be the dress to make a great impression? Are you in for a candle-lit dinner or a fun night at the bar? Depending on the setting and address, the appropriate dress code can vary greatly and we wouldn’t want you sticking out like a sore thumb in sneakers and jeans on the dancefloor at the club downtown. The high stakes and pressure might prove to be too much for some but fret not, for we’re here to make sure you don’t strike out the next time you’re out and about with that special someone.

Making The Right First Impression

First and foremost, it’s important to consider the activity you and your special friend would be indulging in. If the two of you are up for a romantic walk on the beach, make sure to wear shoes that are comfortable to walk in. If you’re in for a gourmet dining experience, wear something formal and smart.

One rule of thumb in situations like these is to never go overboard with your style choices and make sure to leave yourself plenty of margin for error.

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Conversation Topics

While it’s important to not overthink and loosen up during your one-on-one conversation with your partner, there are definitely some topics that should be off-limits. The first date is an opportunity to introduce yourself to the other person so bringing up all of your past relationships and ex-boyfriends could be an instant turn-off.

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Be A Good Listener

Although most of us are inclined to pour our hearts out and tell our entire life story when we finally meet the man of our dreams, in reality, it might be wise to hold on to our horses for a little while. Being a good listener and not interrupting the other person when they’re talking will not only help you learn more and more about them but also leave a good impression on them.